I 1.  Do you care what other people think of you beyond your family and closest friends?
2.    Do you still have things you would like to do, but worry about what other people will think?
3.    Is your life less exciting and fulfilling than it was before you moved into the 50+ years?
4.    Are you feeling lonely now that you don’t have the people from your work and career world playing a large role in your life?
5.    Does it feel like your partner relationship has very little excitement left in it, and that it feels like you need to hit “refresh” or even exit the relationship?
6.    Are you having trouble making new friends in this new chapter of your life?
7.    Do you drink more than a glass of wine (or other drink) per day or smoke?
8.    Do you feel that exercise is not that important at this stage of your life?
9.    Do you have diabetes, high blood pressure, arthritis or suffer from depression?
10.  If you are single do you have trouble meeting women or if you are in a relationship are you unhappy with how things are going?
11.    Do you feel like your mind is busy place, never at rest, and always thinking about something?
12.    Are there times when you don’t feed you have control of your life?
13.    Are you unsure of why your past relationships or your current one is not going well?
14.    Do you avoid talking about sex with your partner?
15.    Are you afraid of having sex at this stage of life because you don’t feel you can perform like you once could?
16.    Do you think you are pretty much you are going to be from a fitness standpoint and don’t see the benefit of a fitness program?
17.    Does your partner ever tell you that you don’t listen and that you are oblivious to what is really going on?
18.    Does your partner ever tell you that you need to work on your appearance and update your look and clothes?
19.    Is your definition of intimacy having intercourse?
20.    Have you ever been told by your partner that you are not romantic?
21.    Do you do things for your partner because you want sex or something else in return for what you did?
Do you think about getting out of your current relationship but don’t have the guts to leave?
23.    Are physical looks more important in a partner than anything else?
24.    Do you like who you are today or do you want to be someone better and have more self-respect?
25.    Do you have a list of things you never accomplished but feel it is too late now to start something new?
26.    Is pleasing people important to you and there are times when you feel like you don’t think about yourself enough?
27.    Love languages..are you unaware of this term and what it means?
28.    Would you say there’s a small number of people keeping you from doing what you really want to do?
29.    Is “love” all you need in a relationship to make it work?
30.    Do you blame others for where you are in life at this point?
31.    Making changes in your life now would not work...is that what you think?
32.    Would you like to have stronger relationships with others in your life besides your partner?
33.    Do you think you could improve your listening skills?
34.    Would you like to get rid of some of the people in your life in terms of spending less time with them?
35.    Would you take two hours to read about how you could start building a plan to take you in a new direction?
36.    Would you like to have a better feeling about yourself, increase your confidence and really find out what a peaceful and mindful life could mean.